First Meeting Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts
Make your first impression count
The first meeting with a potential life partner can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Whether it's arranged by family or you met online, these guidelines will help you navigate the meeting with confidence and grace.
✓ DO's
Be Punctual
Arrive on time or even a few minutes early. Punctuality shows respect for the other person's time and demonstrates reliability.
Dress Appropriately
Choose attire that's neat, comfortable, and suitable for the venue. You want to look presentable without being overly formal or casual.
Be Yourself
Authenticity is key. Don't try to be someone you're not. Let your genuine personality shine through.
Listen Actively
Show genuine interest in what they're saying. Ask follow-up questions and engage in the conversation meaningfully.
Maintain Positive Body Language
Smile, maintain appropriate eye contact, and keep an open posture. These non-verbal cues communicate openness and interest.
✗ DON'Ts
Don't Be Late
Being late creates a negative first impression and suggests poor time management or lack of interest.
Don't Dominate the Conversation
While it's good to share about yourself, make sure it's a two-way conversation. Give them space to talk too.
Don't Discuss Controversial Topics
Avoid divisive subjects like politics or religion on the first meeting. Keep the conversation light and comfortable.
Don't Use Your Phone
Keep your phone away unless it's an emergency. Constant phone checking shows disinterest and disrespect.
Don't Lie or Exaggerate
Honesty is crucial. Any lies will eventually come to light and damage trust.
Conversation Topics to Consider
- Family background and values
- Career and professional goals
- Hobbies and interests
- Future aspirations and life goals
- Views on family and relationships
Remember
The first meeting is about getting to know each other and seeing if there's potential for compatibility. Don't put too much pressure on yourself or the other person. Be genuine, respectful, and open-minded. If it's meant to be, it will flow naturally!